If you’ve been recently broken up with by your girlfriend, you’re probably feeling terrible right about now. You’ve lost your appetite, you’ve got insomnia because you’re too bummed from thinking about her, and you can’t pay attention to things because you’re constantly trying to think out how you could have fixed the relationship and where it all went downhill. Am I pretty accurate in my description here?

Here’s the thing, I know this because I’ve been there myself. I empathize with where you are coming from, and I get that all you care about is to find out how to get back with your ex girlfriend. You still love her, and you have to have her back, and its devouring you. So what is the best way to get started?

1. Don’t call her. You’re most likely not in a good head space to talk to her without saying something dumb due to rampant emotions, and weeping like a child or whining for her to come back is not going to make her see you as a proper life partner. Trust me, I’ve yet to meet a person who wears desperation well. The other good thing about this is that she will begin to realize all the ways that you were there for her when you were together, and that no one understands her the way that you do.

2. Live the kind of life that she would be willing to be a part of. If you huddle in your room and cry, you’ll appear to be pathetic. At the opposite end of the scale, if you go out and start sleeping with randoms, she’ll think you’re a jerk and be glad that she’s broken up with you. Instead, go out with your friends, enjoy yourself, chat with the girls a little, and just generally be the type of guy that girls like. The point is that she should be questioning why you’re not devoting yourself crying over her, and realize that she doesn’t want anybody else making a move on you before she gets you back.

If you find yourself saying “I want my ex girlfriend back” after she’s gone, then you owe it to yourself and your relationship to give these tips a opportunity. If you want more tips on how to get your ex girlfriend back, be sure to take a look at the link in this post.

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